I had a busy day yesterday, having left the house at 9am and gone to therapy, out to my mom’s to help The Brother with applying for Medicaid (he’s finally chosen to get help in a rehab facility for his alcohol addiction), and getting my nails done. I was away from home for 6.5 hours… this is TEW MUCH! lol

Last night, I was sitting on the couch after The Boyfriend and I had gone out for Indian food, trying my best not to curl up and die. TMI – shark week hit hard, late in the day. It struck me that I’d forgotten to do my daily blogging, so I opened the app on my phone to see what Drafts I had that I could possibly throw out there, when I realized that the featured image stuff on the app itself sucks. I don’t have a way to Generate AI pics, so… conundrum!

Thus, here I am, having gone through my many drafts and generating featured pics for all of them, because I really do enjoy having AI generated pics that convey what I talk about in my blog. I don’t want to be ill prepared if I happen to not have access to my PC and need to blog. It’s a minor inconvenience that’s fairly annoying, but C’est la Vie.

There’s much more to all that than I’m able to divulge right now, unfortunately, but I have to be vague, in the off chance that a certain individual (The Boyfriend’s last ex) – whose gone clean off their alcoholic rocker – somehow discovers things about our personal life that she could use to her advantage in her path of destruction.

To say that I’m frustrated about her is a gross understatement. She’s actually the sister of The Boyfriend’s best friend, who passed away 3.5 years ago. And that best friend was married to our mutual friend, who has had a very recent disturbance in her life due to this Ex’s psychotic fuckery. I know, it’s hard to follow, but suffice it to say that she caused a whole ass scene in said friend’s personal life, in front of her family, and because of that – I can’t talk about a really cool thing that’s happening soon… and it pisses me off.

I truly feel bad for The Boyfriend’s connection in all of this. She’s been a sore spot in our relationship that has mostly been avoided because The Boyfriend still cared (cares?!) about her. Not a fan of that, but only because she’s wholly toxic and he doesn’t need that in his life – nor do I. I’ve had to rid myself of toxic people I loved and cared about in my life… it’s not easy in the slightest, but it IS for the best. I am glad that he finally decided to block her on Facebook. Not sure if he got rid of her contact information, though. No Contact is truly the only way to cut ties with a toxic individual, unfortunately.

All the same… I DO wish that she’d get help. Despite how much resentment as I have towards her (and I’ve never even met her), she’s still human. She still has a ton of trauma she needs to address with some intensive therapy, but alas… you can’t MAKE someone get help. I don’t think she really has anyone that gives a shit enough to try, either. But it is what it is.

Aaanyhooo… guess that means it’s gonna be about 2 more weeks before I can fully share the cool thing that’s happening soon, but I plan to sneak a few things in like little nuggets throughout the next couple weeks while it’s happening. Kekeke. Hopefully it will be entertaining and mysterious enough until the Big Reveal when it’s done and over. We shall see!