Monday Mark – 5.5 & 6.0


5.5 – For Last Week’s MM:

“The happiest people are not the ones with the most options, but the ones who are most satisfied with their choices.”

It’s interesting that satisfaction can beget happiness. I remember what that was like. Currently, the best I can get with that is “contentment.” I suppose that’s more positive than not.

“What choices did you make that you keep questioning? How can you make peace with them?”

At one point, I spiraled after not being answered by The Boyfriend for a time. I chose to soothe myself and allow him the space he seemed to need in that moment. I made peace with the fact that sometimes, I will just have to continue to be strong and fight for myself. He ended up coming to me later for hugs and kisses.

“Stop questioning a past choice and focus instead on one you have no doubts about.”

This one is both difficult and easy, depending on the choice made. I tend to make a solid attempt to live without “regret” – and see it as an anchor to the past. This does not mean I am without remorse, mind you (two separate things, imho). But I recognize that the choices I’ve made in my life are things that I can’t change, so why dwell on them and/or regret them? And sure, I do wish sometimes that I had the knowledge I have now back then, but again… such is the past. All I can do now is make BETTER choices with the knowledge and experiences I have gained in my 43 years. 😅


6.0 – No One Can Take This From You

One thing for you to think about

The best investments are the things no one can take away from you: knowledge, experience, mindset, attitude.

The weakest investments are the things that you can lose at any time: status, emotions, material things.

Reflect: Then consider sharing this thought with others.


Two things for you to ask yourself

Have you been investing in the right things? Why or why not?

Recommended: Use these as journaling prompts for the week.


One thing for you to try this week

Invest in one thing this week that no one can take away from you. Let me know how it goes.

Remember: Small changes lead to lasting breakthroughs.


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